Yes Please by Amy Poehler

Yes Please
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Amy Poehler is such a nice person!  Funny, down-to-earth, and very likeable, she does a terrific job as the narrator.  Her description of her faults is endearing and easy to relate to.  Aren’t we all our own worst critic?

From her childhood to her work on Saturday Night Live, Baby Mama, Blades of Glory and Parks and Recreation, she shares well-told, amusing anecdotes.  Many of the stars she has worked with appear in the audiobook.  Also included is a special one-night only live performance from the Upright Citizens Brigade Theater.

Strange, her need to know more about the day she was born.  This part made me go home and ask my mother about the day I was born.  The answer was very unsatisfactory.  Still, you should listen to Yes Please or read the book if you prefer.  I do recommend it!

Give Us the Ballot by Ari Berman

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In 1965, Lyndon Johnson signed the Voting Rights Act, a moment many Americans believed would bring suffrage to all.  But, as this book depicts, the Act signaled both heroic accomplishments and heartbreaking setbacks in the efforts to allow all the right to vote.  Berman approaches his topic as if it were a crime novel.  While working in legal terms and court decisions, his focus on the individuals—both those who thwarted and those who fostered the law—is what holds the reader’s attention.  Moreover, political figures who tried to achieve one result often, ironically, achieved the opposite.

When Books Went to War by Molly Guptill Manning

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Think there is nothing much left to know about World War II?  Think again.  This book tells of enlisted men whose one and only form of entertainment became reading, and of the enormous home-front effort to supply them with the books they desperately wanted.  Ms. Manning’s book not only depicts the need of soldiers for books to alleviate the horrors of war, but also reminds us all never to take them for granted.  Librarians, (let’s hear it for them), were the first to realize the lack of books and take steps to organize.  Along the way, we get clear glimpses of the hardships of the soldiers and the deep and varied joy the books brought.  While one might assume that a drive for books for soldiers would only meet with support, one would be wrong.  Along the way, there were problems of supply, cost and, of course, censors.  But the achievements were outstanding.  Indeed, the reader begins to realize that the solace and inspiration that the books brought were as powerful a weapon as any the military could provide.

 

 

The Light of the World, A Memoir by Elizabeth Alexander

 

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The book jacket states that Alexander writes “a lyrical celebration of a life well-lived.”  This is so true.  She beautifully illustrates the love she and her husband shared and the life they made together.  She also tells stories about her husband Ficre’s life (he was from Eritrea, in the Horn of Africa) as a chef and a painter.  Sadly, her husband died unexpectedly.  The story continues as she and her two sons slowly but surely make their way from grief to light.  The book is beautifully written and a fitting tribute to a wonderful and talented man.

Man in Profile: Joseph Mitchell of the New Yorker by Thomas Kunkel

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This is a biography of one of the most famous staff writers for the New Yorker Magazine.  Mitchell, from small-town North Carolina, was drawn to a writing career and landed in New York as a journalist.  He quickly became noticed by the New Yorker, and joined the staff in the heyday of the magazine.  The New Yorker featured the most notable writers of the day —  James Thurber, E. B. White, A. J. Liebling, Dorothy Parker, John Hersey…the list goes on and on.

Mitchell was interested in the characters in New York who made the City tick — bartenders, fishermen, eccentric characters, tug boat captains.  He is credited with raising journalism into the realm of literary art.  There were controversies along the way, and toward the end of his life, a stunning mystery.

Some Assembly Required: The Not-So-Secret Life of a Transgender Teen by Arin Andrews

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If and when my library teens want to discuss what is going on in their lives, they know I am available as a sounding board, a shoulder to cry on, or as a resource for finding agencies that can provide further help.  Some of my teens have come to me while they were in the process of coming out and/or transitioning.  Thankfully, there are brave young people like Arin Andrews who are willing to share their own stories so that transgender and cisgender people can better understand both the obstacles transgender people face and the resources that are available to them as they decide how they would like to move forward with their lives.

I thought Arin did a great job of explaining the process of [female to male] transitioning both simply and thoroughly; the fact that he managed to do so without being didactic was very impressive!  Though Arin’s transition involved both hormone therapy and gender reassignment surgery, he was careful to explain that there are many people who opt to transition differently and that all choices are valid.  I was especially grateful for Arin’s candor about dating and sex, since I am sure many people are curious about how that all “works,” when one or more of the people in the relationship is transgendered.  I think this book would be an excellent resource for someone who is preparing for or struggling with his/her own transition, but I also think it is an important book to share with cisgender teens.  As a woman who feels perfectly at home in the body into which she was born, it has taken years of conversations with transgendered teens to even begin to fully appreciate their struggle.  I can only hope that the open sharing of stories like Arin’s will help future generations to be more understanding and empathetic and that the struggle for trans rights will soon become a part of history.

Clutterfree with Kids by Joshua Becker

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The complete title of this book is actually Clutterfree with Kids: Change your thinking.  Discover new habits.  Free your home.  Since that was such a mouthful, though, I decided to go the extra mile and even de-clutter the title of this post!  I have to admit that I didn’t really know what to expect when I checked out this book.  As many of you are probably doing right now, I read the title and assumed that it would be a collection of tips and tricks on how to organize your home better so that you can eliminate clutter.  I was pleasantly surprised to find that it was less Secrets of an Organized Mom and more Say Goodbye to Survival Mode.  Rather than tips and tricks for being better organized, I found inspiration to live more simply.  Becker gets to the root of the problem and acknowledges that people who desire a less cluttered home, and who want to spend less of their time cleaning up and organizing their stuff, should work on owning fewer things.  While some people take minimalism way too far for my comfort, I thought Becker’s approach was perfectly reasonable.  And though I could probably go on and on about different things that resonated with me, I think the perfect summary can be found on Becker’s Becoming Minimalist website — “Never underestimate the importance of abandoning crap you don’t need.”

The Andy Cohen Diaries – A Deep Look at a Shallow Year by Andy Cohen

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Since I am a huge fan of the Bravo Channel and Watch What Happens Live, I have been following Andy Cohen for a long time. This fulfills all my needs for name dropping and fancy movie star parties and club hopping (all being done by Andy of course, not me, darn it!.  ) He is hysterically funny and the situations he ends up in are so comical.  Get the book to see all the pictures.  But an added plus is that I’m listening to this in the car and Andy reads it so it makes it that much more fun!

I am not myself these Days by Josh Kilmer-Purcell

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Some of you may recognize the author’s name — he one half of the Fabulous Beekman Boys!  But before that…well let’s just say Josh had a very different life.  In the mid ’90s he was working in the advertising business by day and by night he was known as Aqua, a 7-foot-tall drag queen who wore a live goldfish in a bowl as part of his costume.  As his night life of clubs and drinking begins to spill over into his day life, he ultimately saw that he had to make a change.  His writing is funny and witty and tells an amazing story that also is quite sad. Worth a read, especially if you’d like to contrast the before and after Josh.

The Boys in the Boat: Nine Americans and Their Epic Quest for Gold at the 1936 Berlin Olympics by Daniel James Brown

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I seldom read biography, and certainly not sports biography, but this book was so highly recommended that I picked it up.  I’m so glad that I did.  This is one of the best books I’ve read in a long time.  While it focuses on the life of Joe Rantz, one of the crew members at the University of Washington, it also presents the other crew members, captures the depths of the hardships filling this country during the Depression, and paints a grim picture of Hitler’s Germany.

Who knew crew was such a grueling sport?  I certainly didn’t.  These college men worked incredibly hard and sacrificed much to earn a place on the team that ultimately triumphed in the Berlin Olympics.  I was inspired by their dedication and by their commitment to each other and to their goal.  This is a story about strength of will, teamwork, and values.  Read it.  You’ll be glad you did.

Laughing at My Nightmare by Shane Burcaw

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I was shocked to see that this book was a YALSA Award for Excellence in Nonfiction Finalist.  Not because I didn’t think it was deserving, though, but because I was shocked it didn’t actually win!  Shane Burcaw’s self-deprecating sense of humor and unwavering positivity in the face of adversity have already garnered tens of thousands of readers for his blog [laughingatmynightmare.tumblr.com], so it comes as no surprise that the book has also been universally well-received.

Shane’s writing style made me feel as if I was hanging out with a friend and listening to crazy stories about his past.  Although I wouldn’t have held it against him if he had been bitter or angry about his lot in life, he was just so chill and goofy that it was hard to remember, at times, that he wasn’t a “normal” guy.  As I read about the many setbacks that came along with Shane’s spinal muscular atrophy, I found myself wondering how it was possible for Shane to keep his sense of humor.  More than that, I found myself wondering if I could train myself to look past the doom and gloom to find the silver linings in my own life.  It may take a bit of time and patience, but I think this is certainly a worthy goal.  Thanks so much, Shane, for sharing your story and inspiring people to rid themselves (and the world) of negativity.

The Lost City of Z: A Tale of Deadly Obsession in the Amazon by David Grann

The Lost City of Z

I am not a huge reader of non-fiction.  For me to really get into a non-fiction title, it usually has to be about something I really care about (like Say Goodbye to Survival Mode) or read like fiction (like King of the Mild Frontier).  This fell into the latter category.  A friend had recommended this book to me when it first came out, but it kept getting pushed to the back burner.  Finally, I told myself that I needed to take a break from all the dystopias I was reading/listening to and dive into a non-fiction title.  I’m so glad I did!  The details were so vivid, and David Grann wrote such a fantastic narrative that I thought to myself, several times, “This would make an awesome movie.  It’s like a real life Indiana Jones adventure!”  Imagine my shock and elation, then, when I heard [on the radio this morning] that it is going to be made into a movie… produced by Brad Pitt, no less.  So awesome!

One of the things I liked so much about this book was the layered storytelling.  David Grann skillfully wove together his own research, planning, and travel experiences with stories from primary documents relating to British explorer Percy Fawcett’s quest to rediscover the “Lost City of Z.”  Though there were many stories about an advanced, ancient civilization in the Amazon (which some believed to be El Dorado), countless explorers failed to find evidence that the city actually existed.  Instead, many died in their search or brought back “evidence” that the native peoples were not nearly organized or advanced enough to have built the city of legend.  While many wrote it off as a fable, Percy Fawcett, a member of the Royal Geographical Society, became obsessed and refused to give up the search.  Fawcett became a legend among explorers because of his uncanny ability to avoid the injuries and illnesses that often killed other men, let alone his aptitude for communicating and negotiating with the various groups of natives he encountered.  I don’t know about you, but I can’t wait to see how this plays out on the big screen.

Confessions of a Scary Mommy by Jill Smokler

Confessions of a Scary Mommy

It is a well-known fact that I prefer to read YA and would probably be just fine if I never got to read another “grown up” book again.  When I do read “grown up” books, they tend to be of the self-help variety, more often than not about parenting.  Despite my fiction preferences, I have a couple of kids I need to raise and would like to do it well!  While I will occasionally read serious parenting books — like Beyond the Sling and Cinderella Ate My Daughter — I prefer to read parenting books that serve up parenting advice and epiphanies with a side of snark — like Parenting: Illustrated with Crappy Pictures and If You Give a Mom a Martini.  This book, if you couldn’t tell by the title, belongs to the latter group!

One of my favorite things about this book was how easily I could fit it into my busy life.  At bedtime, while I wait for my kids to put on PJs and brush their teeth, I usually try to sneak in a few minutes of reading on my own.  I sometimes read magazines because a lot of books are so involved that they’re not conducive to short bursts of reading.  Fortunately, this book made it easy to squeeze in a short chapter, or at least the “Mommy Confessions” that come before the chapter (collected from the Scary Mommy website — http://www.scarymommy.com/confessions), whenever I had a little time to spare.  I have to admit that more than a few of the confessions had me laughing out loud, though some of them were just sad.  Overall, I think the book does a great job of helping moms see that they are not alone in the struggles they face or the self-doubt that plagues them.  From pregnancy and childbirth to sibling rivalry and anxiety, this book covers a large portion of what moms handle and worry about on a daily basis.  Now that I’ve finished this book, I’m looking forward to exploring more of the Scary Mommy website and reading another of Jill Smokler’s books, Motherhood Comes Naturally (and Other Vicious Lies)!

Destiny of the Republic : A Tale of Madness, Medicine and the Murder of a President by Candice Millard

Destiny of the Republic

This was a book recommended to me by my brother.  I should talk to him more often about what he’s reading!  This book is so well written.  It is about James Garfield, our 20th President, and you’ll feel as if you are right in the middle of this fascinating, and ultimately sad, story.  It will also make you ask the question — what would our nation have become with Garfield at the helm?  I can honestly say I didn’t really know much about him other than the fact that he had been assassinated.  This book is chock full of information about this extremely smart, talented, accomplished Civil War hero.  The description of how he suffered at the hands of his physicians is truly criminal — if only they had been aware that using sterile technique along with simple hand washing could have helped him live! He didn’t have to die.  A book absolutely worth reading!

Lost Girls : An Unsolved American Mystery by Robert Kolker

Lost Girls

This book was written by an investigative reporter.  It tells the true story of the search for a serial killer who is still out there somewhere.  At last count there are at least five women who were found in an area of Long Island called Oak Beach.  The families of the women have a theory as to why these cases are still unsolved : the women were all involved in Internet prostitution.  The book really explores the shady world of escorts and the way that technology, by way of Craigslist and Backpage, has made prostitution dangerous in a whole new way.